what's with people and love and lies? i know a lot of people, myself included, who did some stupid things just for, argh, love. i admit i did some things in the past which are unbelievably stupid to the point na i don't want to remember them anymore. i mean, i know, love is one essential thing in life, because without it we wouldn't even exist, but a lot of people are getting hurt because of it also. it's so antaclimactic! one time you can be in bliss and one time you are in so much pain that you don't want to live anymore.

one particular thing that love can do to a person is for that person to disobey his or her parents. i did that same thing but at least i have learned from it. but some people seem not to learn anything from experience. this is just the case of one of my friends. don't get me wrong. i love her dearly but what she's doing is just plain stupidity. she told me her mom doesn't approve of this guy she's with so she broke up with her. then one day i text her and the guy replies and tells me that he has her sim card, meaning they got back together (or maybe they didn't break up at all). it's not as if this is the first time her parents disapprove of her relationship. she's been in a relationship twice and at both times her parents didn't like the guys. so i thought she learned from her own experience. apparently, she didn't.

then here's my other friend who lost the 'love of his life' for about a year and a half now and still can't move on. i kept telling him that there's life after the break-up and that there are a million girls out there for crying out loud! but there he is,probably thinking about her (again) right now, sulking and blaming himself for something stupid and aweful he did ages ago which ruined their relationship. he admitted his mistake and i salute him for being a man, but whatever i say to him he just can't help loving this girl (who now has a life and got a new boyfriend). he keeps telling me that his life revolved (and is still revolving around) her because he was so attached, physically and emotionally, to her that it is very hard, and i mean really hard, for him to let go. well, i don't care if he's getting tired of me saying this but "GET A LIFE!" (and i say this in the sweetest manner). she has, so why don't you?

remember this people of the world: not everyone in a relationship is happy and being single doesn't mean your alone. just be thankful for what you have and wait for the right time to come for you to meet the 'love' that you're looking for.